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Move from survival mode towards greater healing, connection, and belonging in your adoptive family.

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Do some of your child's behaviors leave you confused and unsure how to respond?

Do your child's emotions feel big and intense and leave you uncertain about how to help?

Do your child's emotions feel big and intense and leave you uncertain about how to help?

Do your child's emotions feel big and intense and leave you uncertain about how to help?

Do your child's emotions feel big and intense and leave you uncertain about how to help?

Do your child's emotions feel big and intense and leave you uncertain about how to help?

Are you tired of feeling like you're constantly firefighting?

Do your child's emotions feel big and intense and leave you uncertain about how to help?

Do you wonder if what you're experiencing is a normal part of child development?

Do you wonder if what you're experiencing is a normal part of child development?

Do you wonder why the strategies you've tried don't seem to create lasting change?

Do you wonder if what you're experiencing is a normal part of child development?

Or because of your child's early adversity and trauma?

Do you wonder why the strategies you've tried don't seem to create lasting change?

Do you wonder why the strategies you've tried don't seem to create lasting change?

Do you wonder why the strategies you've tried don't seem to create lasting change?

Do you wonder why the strategies you've tried don't seem to create lasting change?

Do you wonder why the strategies you've tried don't seem to create lasting change?

You don't need to feel overwhelmed, uncertain, or stuck in your parenting.

When family life feels difficult, it's natural to search for the strategy that will finally make things better.


But when you're parenting a child whose painful early experiences have shaped how they experience safety, relationships, emotions, and behavior, strategies alone aren't enough.


Adoptive Parenting Coaching helps you understand what's happening beneath the surface so you can respond with greater clarity, confidence, and intention. 

Understand what's happening beneath your child's behavior.

Understand what's happening beneath your child's behavior.

Understand what's happening beneath your child's behavior.

Respond with greater intention and less reactivity.

Understand what's happening beneath your child's behavior.

Understand what's happening beneath your child's behavior.

Feel calmer and more confident, even when things are hard.

Create a family life that feels more connected and manageable.

Create a family life that feels more connected and manageable.

Create a family life that feels more connected and manageable.

Create a family life that feels more connected and manageable.

Create a family life that feels more connected and manageable.

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Meet Jessica

Hi, I'm Jessica. I'm a therapeutic social worker with over 20 years of experience supporting adoptive families.


Over the years, I've seen many adoptive parents work incredibly hard and still feel exhausted, confused, and stuck. 


Parents are often given strategies, but very few are given a way of understanding what may be happening beneath behavior, why family life can remain so difficult, and what supports healing from trauma over time.


That's why I created the Nurtured Belonging™ Framework.


Through Adoptive Parenting Coaching, I help parents apply the framework to their own family so they can better understand their child, strengthen their own capacity, and respond in ways that support safety, healing, and belonging.


If you're ready to move beyond survival mode and create a family life that feels more connected and manageable, rather than simply getting through the day, Adoptive Parenting Coaching offers a clear way forward.


See you soon,

Jessica

Adoptive Parenting Coaching

A 12-session coaching process that helps you move beyond survival mode towards lasting change.

Adoptive Parenting Coaching gives you a structured way to step back from the challenges you’re facing and make sense of what may be keeping your family stuck.


Rather than focusing only on changing behavior, we'll look at the bigger picture — your child's experiences and responses, your own capacity, and the patterns developing within your relationships — so you can make more intentional decisions about how to respond.


Together, we'll work through the five elements of the Nurtured Belonging™ Framework, applying each one to the real-life challenges you're experiencing within your family.

The 5 Elements of the Nurtured Belonging™ Framework

AWARENESS

AWARENESS

AWARENESS

Understanding your child's story:


Understand the experiences that have shaped your child's world and begin to see the child behind the behavior.

INSIGHT

AWARENESS

AWARENESS

 Making sense of responses:


Recognize how past experiences continue to influence your child's emotions, relationships, development, and behavior today.

CAPACITY

AWARENESS

CURIOSITY

  Strengthening your ability to respond:


Build the emotional and relational resources you need to remain steady and connected, even when things are hard.

CURIOSITY

CURIOSITY

CURIOSITY

Looking beneath behavior:


Pause and wonder about what your child may be feeling, needing, or communicating beneath their behavior.

ACTION

CURIOSITY

ACTION

  Responding with intention:


Respond in ways that support safety, healing, connection, and belonging.

The Nurtured Belonging™ Framework isn't another parenting strategy.

  

It’s a system for supporting your child’s healing, strengthening your relationship, and creating lasting change in adoptive family life.

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How Adoptive Parenting Coaching Takes Place

We'll meet weekly on Zoom for twelve private 1-to-1 sessions, tailored to your family and the challenges you're facing.


Together, we'll slow things down and make sense of what's happening.


You'll gain skill sets that will help you feel more confident and at ease in your parenting.


You'll learn strategies to help your child heal and thrive. 


We'll explore practical ways of responding that support safety, healing, and belonging.


Between sessions, you'll have time to reflect on what you're learning and begin applying it within everyday family life.


This isn't about finding a quick fix or getting everything right. 


It's about developing the understanding, capacity, and confidence to respond differently over time.


The investment in Adoptive Parenting Coaching is £1,500.

Ready to get started?

If you're wondering whether Adoptive Parenting Coaching is right for you, I'd love to meet you.


During a free consultation, we'll talk about what's happening in your family, what you're finding most difficult, and what you're hoping could be different.


I'll answer your questions about the coaching process, and together we'll explore whether it feels like the right fit.

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How other parents are benefitting. . .

Jessica is excellent at creating a safe and compassionate space for participants. She uses the word "grace" and the expression "giving grace to parents/carers" which is very moving and comforting when feeling somewhat inadequate as a parent.

This is less about being certain about getting it right - but more about how you approach parenting.

  

When we reached out we were feeling really low and joyless. By implementing the skills Jessica taught us we feel more empowered as parents and happier as a family.

I found all of it quite empowering.  

Frequently Asked Questions

Because adoption comes with early experiences of loss and trauma, typical parenting strategies don’t work. Adoptive parenting coaching offers you a practical approach that’s focused on connection and tailored to the unique needs of your family. Coaching focuses on helping you understand why your child may be struggling and how you can respond in ways that build trust, connection, and long-term healing. It's not about fixing your child - it's about equipping you to parent in a way that truly meets their emotional and relational needs.


Yes. The coaching I offer is rooted in a deep understanding of how early trauma, loss, and disrupted attachment can shape a child’s inner world and behaviors. This isn’t a quick-fix or generic advice. We go beneath the surface to understand the why behind your child’s responses and explore how your relationship can become a safe base for healing.


Adoptive parenting coaching is distinct in that it focuses specifically on you as a parent. It helps you understand how your child has been affected by the past and what their needs are now, giving you the tools to respond in ways that build trust, safety, and connection. Coaching is collaborative, practical, and deeply attuned to the complexities of adoption and early relational trauma.


Counselling offers a safe space to talk through personal challenges, explore emotions, and get support in coping with everyday stress or relationship issues.  Therapy tends to go deeper, helping people work through more complex mental health concerns or heal from their own trauma histories.


While coaching doesn’t replace therapy, it does offer a powerful space for adoptive parents to build insight, shift patterns, and respond in ways that promote trust and regulation. Many parents find that this kind of support creates real change, not just in their child, but in how they feel as a parent.


Adoptive Parenting Coaching might be a great fit if you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to support your child in ways that actually work.  Maybe you've tried typical parenting advice and found it doesn’t address the deeper needs adoption can bring.  Or maybe you’re simply longing for more clarity, confidence, and connection in your parenting.  You don’t need to have it all figured out — you just need to be open to learning and ready to move forward with support.  


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Please note that I do not work with adoptive parents who are experiencing safeguarding or child protection concerns; where there is a risk of adoption disruption or breakdown; where there are active custody disputes between adoptive parents; or where there are court proceedings.  


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